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Ive grown and changed so much and have learned how wonderful the community is beyond the hellhole i resided in. Im ashamed to admit ive taken my insecurities out on others just trying to live, and was actively transphobic towards my own community if the person in question made me afraid-afraid of my own identity. I was ashamed in myself for being a threat, and seeing other queer folk live authentically and confidently themselves was a threat to the glass walls and bubble i had built around my own identity to hide it. I was deeply insecure of my identity as a queer person and was pushed by the community into thinking i had to be male instead of agender or else my identity was a danger to other trans folks and that my identity as anything other than a cis passing trans male would actively harm other queer folk deeply. Speaking of transmedicalism, im so deeply sorry to anyone ive hurt during my time as a self proclaimed transmed. and don’t try to tell me that being dysphoria isnt inherently distressing and terrible. learn this and accept it and stop lashing out because you’re in pain. you can be a man or woman with a vagina/penis and be okay with that, because it’s normal. no one likes being misgendered, not even cis people. and the misgendering of non dysphorics is so fucking gross. saying dysphoria is needed to be trans is saying being trans is mental illness, which you can guess is transphobic. like can y’all not grasp the concept that like, you don’t have to be distressed to be trans? it’s okay to just be okay with yourself and still be trans. the entire community and ideology is so toxic and transphobic, and it ignores science and common sense while claiming to be all for it. Might as well add the gay and lesbian flags too since tucutes wanna force them to be attracted to multiple genders (men/women + the ever-growing amount of. i couldn’t see it when i was one but, jesus christ.